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Tarih sayfalarında, Selahaddin Eyyubi gibi saygı gören ve hayranlık uyandıran çok az figür bulunmaktadır. Efsanevi bir Türkmen Müslüman askeri komutan ve devlet adamı olan Selahaddin, Haçlı Seferleri'nin yaşandığı orta çağ İslam dünyasında önemli bir rol oynayarak tarihin sayfalarına unutulmaz bir iz bıraktı. Bugün, Selahaddin Eyyubi'nin hayatını, başarılarını ve mirasını keşfetmeyi amaçlamaktadır - Şövalye ruhlu ve soylu Türk Sultanı, Haçlı Seferleri'nin karmaşık zamanlarında yükseldi.
Erken Dönem ve Güç Kazanma:
Selahaddin Eyyubi, günümüz Irak'ına denk gelen Tikrit'te 1137 yılında doğdu. O dönemlerde Tikrit de çoğunluğu Türkmen aileler oluşturmaktaydı ve Selahaddin'in Türkmen kökenleri olan bir ailesi vardı, askeri kademelerdeki hızlı yükselişini sağladı. Selahaddin, amcası Şirkuh'un liderliğinde hizmet etti ve daha sonra Mısır Fatımi Halifeliği'nin veziri oldu. Askeri başarıları ve stratejik zekası hızla tanındı ve ordunun komutanı olarak atanmasına yol açtı.
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Canada, the second-largest country in the world, is a land of breathtaking landscapes, diverse cultures, and friendly locals. From the vibrant cities to the vast wilderness, there's so much to explore and learn about this fascinating nation. In this blog post, we'll delve into the essentials, giving you a comprehensive overview of what you need to know about Canada.
Canada's geography is nothing short of spectacular. From the majestic Rocky Mountains to the stunning Niagara Falls, the country boasts diverse landscapes. Learn about the iconic national parks, such as Banff and Jasper, and discover the beauty of the Canadian Shield and the Arctic tundra.
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An Insight into Turkish Dating Culture
Dating is an essential part of human interaction, and every culture has its own unique approach to it. In this blog post, we'll delve into the fascinating world of Turkish dating and explore some of the customs and traditions that shape the process.
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Cengiz Han ve haleflerinin önderliğindeki Moğol İmparatorluğu, 13. yüzyılda Asya'da geniş toprakları fetheden zorlu bir güçtü. Ancak Avrupa'ya doğru batıya doğru genişlemeleri birçok zorlukla karşılaştı ve sonunda Polonya'da durduruldu.
Avrupa'yı tamamen fethedebilirler miydi? Bunu öğrenmek için tarihi gerçeklere bakalım.
Olağanüstü askeri taktikleri ve stratejik savaşlarıyla tanınan Moğollar, Doğu Avrupa'ya birçok yıkıcı istila başlattı. 13. yüzyılın ortalarında Macaristan, Bulgaristan gibi komşu devletleri ve günümüz Rusya'sının bazı kısımlarını fethettiler. Görünüşte durdurulamaz fetihleri kıtanın her yerinde şok dalgaları yarattı.
1241 yılına gelindiğinde Moğollar, Cengiz Han'ın torunu Batu Han'ın önderliğinde Polonya'ya ulaşmıştı. Polonya, Dindar Dük II. Henry'nin yönetimi altında, Moğol işgalcilerine karşı şiddetli bir direniş gösterdi. Bohemya ve Moravya'dan gelen müttefiklerin yardımıyla Polonya kuvvetleri, Nisan 1241'de Legnica Muharebesi'nde Moğol ilerleyişini durdurmayı başardılar. Moğollar taktiksel bir zafer elde etmelerine rağmen, kayıpları daha fazla ilerlemeyi önleyecek kadar önemliydi.
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Japonya'nın İkinci Dünya Savaşı sırasında Çin'i başarılı bir şekilde işgal etmesi gerçekten de tarihte büyüleyici bir bölümdür. Japonya, coğrafi olarak Çin'den daha küçük olmasına rağmen, stratejik planlama, askeri cesaret ve siyasi manevra kombinasyonu sayesinde büyük komşusu üzerinde hakimiyetini kurmayı başardı.
Japonya'nın fethini mümkün kılan temel faktörlerden biri, modernleşme ve sanayileşmeyi erken benimsemesiydi. 19. yüzyılın sonlarında ve 20. yüzyılın başlarında Japonya, Meiji Restorasyonu olarak bilinen hızlı modernizasyon reformlarından geçti. Bu süreç, Japonya'nın askeri teknoloji, sanayi ve altyapı açısından Batılı güçlere hızla yetişmesine olanak sağladı.
Buna karşılık Çin bu süre zarfında bir iç karışıklık ve siyasi istikrarsızlık döneminden geçiyordu. Qing Hanedanlığı yolsuzluk, hizipçilik ve reforma karşı direniş nedeniyle zayıfladı. Sonuç olarak Çin, Japonya'nın saldırgan yayılmacı hırslarıyla yüzleşmeye hazırlıksızdı.
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Birkaç şey sayabilirim ama bunlar oldukça moral bozucu ve Japonya'nın içe dönüklük ve yalnızlık çılgınlığının ne kadar içine düştüğünü gösteriyor.
Japon Kız arkadaş kiralamak
Kız öğrenci kiralamak olarak bilinen, kiralık şeker baba platonik ilişkisinin bir türüdür. 1990'ların sonlarında, hızlı paraya ihtiyaç duyan reşit olmayan genç Japon okul kızları, kendilerini çok daha yaşlı müşterilere satmaya başladı. Bu karşılaşmaların çoğunluğu nadiren cinsel ilişkiyi içerse de, zorla da dahil olmak üzere cinselliğin söz konusu olduğu durumlar da olmuştur.
Bu, Japonya'nın yıllardır bir fetiş haline gelen genç masum kızlara yönelik rahatsız edici iştahının bir parçası. Daha da önemlisi, Japon okul kızları erkek nüfusta giderek artan yalnızlık sorunundan yararlandı.
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4 MART 1193 TÜRK KOMUTAN SELAHATTİN EYYÜBİ
Kardeşlerinin isimleri, Turanşah, Tuğtekin ve Börü’dür. Börü Türk destanlarında “Kurt” demektir. Selahattin’in oğullarından biri İl Gazi Hama’da Melik olarak bulunmuştur. Selahattin’in kardeşi oğluna Atsız adı vermiştir. Selahattin’in yeğenleri Arslan Şah, Kılıç Arslan, Şahin Şah gibi adlar taşıyordu. Selahattin’in akrabaları Erkuşun oğlu İzzettin Ak Börü, Muzaffer Gök Börü ve Laçin’dir.
Selahattin’in ağabeyi Şehinşah ise Kutlukız Katun adında bir Türk kızıyla evlenmiştir. Selahattin öz be öz Türk’tür. Büyük Selçuklu Sultanı Melikşah’ın kumandanı Aksungur’un oğlu İmadeddin Zengi tarafından El-Cezire ve Suriye’de kurulmuştur. Musul Atabeyi İmadeddin Zengi 1132 yılında Irak Selçukluları tarafından yenilgiye uğratılmış. Selahattin’in babası Necmeddin Eyyüp Zengin’in kaçmasına yardım etmiş daha sonra komutanlığına getirilmiş. Selahattin Eyyubi Musul kumandanı Aksungur’un, Selahattin’in kardeşi ise Zengi’nin oğlu Nureddin’in hizmetine girmiştir. Selahaddin’in kardeşi 1169 yılında Mısır’ın kontrolünü ele geçirmiş ama öldüğü için Selahaddin yerine geçmiştir. Selahaddin 1171 yılında Fatimileri, 1175 yılında Zengileri yenerek Eyyübi Devletini kurmuştur. 1176 yılında kardeşi Turanşah ile birlikte Yemen’i fethetmiştir. Abbasi Halifesi Suriye, Yemen, Filistin ve Kuzey Afrika’nın Sultanı ian etmiştir. Selahaddin Eyyübi Mısır’da Fatimileri ortadan kaldırmış. 1187 yılında Hattin’de Haçlı ordularını yenmiştir. Hayatı parlak zaferlerle geçmiştir. 1193 yılında vefat etmiştir. Bazı İslam kaynakları Selahaddin Eyyübi’nin 758 yılında Basra’dan Azerbaycan’a sürgün edilen veya göçen Araplardan Ravvad Bin El Ezdi’nin soyundan geldiğini iddia etmektedirler. Arap tarihçilerinin önemli şahsiyetleri, özellikle hükümdarları, kutsamak için şecere uydurmak hatta Seyyid ilan etmek gibi kötü bir gelenekleri bulunmaktadır.
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Ünlü komutan Selâhaddin-i Eyyûbî, Irak’ın Tikrit kentinde 1138 yılında dünyaya gelmiştir. Künyesi Yusuf bin Eyyub (Eyüp oğlu Yusuf) olup; Selâhaddin (selâh ed-din) onun lâkabıdır. Babası Necmeddin Eyyub, Selçuklu atabeyi (emir) İmadeddin Zengi’nin adamlarından olup; günümüz jeopolitiği dikkate alındığında Azerbaycan taraflarından göçerek, Ortadoğu’ya inmiştir.Baba sülâlesinin Türkmen (Oğuz/Ogur) mi, Kıpçak mı yahut Gurmanç mı olduğu konusu -kimi tarihçilerce- ihtilâflı bulunsa bile söz konusu bu toplulukların her birinin birer Türk boyu olduğu gerçeği de unutulmamalıdır. O döneme tanıklık eden bütün kaynaklar Selâhaddin’in Türk olduğu noktasında birleşmektedir. Kaldı ki Tolunoğulları ile başlayıp; Osmanlılara kadar geçen süreci yani Suriye, Mısır, Hicaz, Yemen, Kuzey Afrika gibi bölgelerin Türkler tarafından ele geçirilmesini “Oğuz Harekâtı” olarak tanımlayan tarihçiler de vardır.
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Tataristan, Rusya Federasyonu'nun bir parçası olan yaklaşık 4 milyon nüfuslu bir cumhuriyettir. Rusya'da Volga Federal Bölgesi'ne dahildir. Başkent Kazan şehridir. Temmuz 2013'te cumhuriyette öğrencilere yönelik dünya spor oyunları "Universitede - 2013" düzenlendi. Tataristan topraklarında çok sayıda tarihi ve kültürel anıt bulunmaktadır, çünkü Cumhuriyet turistlerin ziyaret etmesi için cazip bir destinasyondur.
Tatar Hava Taşımacıları
Yolcu hava taşımacılığı iki Tatar Havayolları tarafından gerçekleştirilmektedir: "Tataristan Air Company" ve "Ak Bars Aero". Bu hava taşıyıcılarının faaliyetleri sayesinde, başkent Kazan'a yalnızca Rusya'nın herhangi bir yerinden değil, aynı zamanda BDT ülkelerinden ve yurt dışından da direkt uçuşlarla ulaşmak mümkün.
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Today's Health Dosa aims to provide useful information to parents and more, about the body's immunity!
WHAT IS IMMUNITY?
It is the body's ability to defend itself against viruses, bacteria, toxins and parasites. When does children's immunity stabilize? Around the age of 11–12!
WHEN IS THE CHILD'S IMMUNITY FORMED?
Immunity develops up to the age of 8, and up to this age children can get sick frequently. The most common are respiratory viral infections, which can affect a healthy child even with 8-10 episodes annually.
CAN WE, THE PARENTS, CONTRIBUTE TO HEALTHY CHILDREN'S IMMUNITY?
Yes! We can help our children to form a healthy immunity, through an optimal supply of vitamins, minerals and antioxidants, which are a useful support for the immune system.
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Sparrows are one of the bird species best adapted to humanity's change.
Sparrows are one of the bird species that best adapt to humanity's change. Despite this, their population has been decreasing rapidly in recent years. When England found that it had lost 68% of its sparrows, it began to conduct research in London parks to protect the species. Indians created World Sparrow Day to draw the world's attention to this extinction. Every year on March 20, the whole world takes action for these little creatures. In our country, Doğa Association has been organizing events within the scope of World Sparrow Day with the support of nature volunteers for the last 3 years.
We can list many signs heralding the arrival of spring: nature turns green; flowers bloom; Butterflies begin to fly, birds begin to sing...
But in our lives squeezed into big concrete cities, most of us cannot catch these signs and miss spring. However, sparrows chirp from the small bushes next to huge buildings or in front of your window, as if they are trying to announce to people that spring is at the door.
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Hiç bir arkadaşınızdan para isteyen bir WhatsApp mesajı aldınız mı? Bu bir dolandırıcılık olabilir. Dolandırıcıların kazanmasına asla izin vermemek için WhatsApp dolandırıcılığı yazımızı okuyun.
Bugün WhatsApp'ın 2 milyar kullanıcısı her gün ortalama 100 milyar mesaj gönderiyor; ve bu mesajların arasında saldırmayı bekleyen dolandırıcılar gizleniyor.
WhatsApp, savunmasız kullanıcıların çevrimiçi bir dolandırıcılığa kurban gitmesi umuduyla dolandırıcıların çeşitli yollarla dolandırıcılık mesajları dağıtmasının basit bir yolu haline geldi. Platformun bu kadar erişilebilir ve yaygın hale gelmesinin bir sonucu olarak
WhatsApp siber suçları artıyor ve her kurbana ortalama binlerce dolara mal oluyor. Bu makalenin amacı sizi gerçek hayattaki WhatsApp dolandırıcılıkları hakkında bilgilendirmek, dolandırıcılığı fark etmenize yardımcı olmak ve bir dolandırıcı tarafından kandırılmanın bazı yollarını anlatmaktır.
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The ornamentation of objects is an artistic reproduction, usually simplified by figurative forms of the surrounding reality (material, social, spiritual). The ornament expresses a side of the cultural specificity, of the way of conceiving and producing aesthetic values.
In popular creation, where the names of the craftsmen mostly remain unknown, the ornamental motifs have been polished and selected over the centuries and millennia, becoming a treasure and standard of collective creation.
The decor is always organically linked to the function of the objects, the raw material and the technique in which they are worked, varying in relation to the skill and social status of the creator, the historical stage of development of the society, the geographical location and the demographic structure of the population, sometimes ornaments find their expression sacred symbols that are passed down from generation to generation and are related to the ancient symbols of the people. Thus, folk ornamentation presents an ethnographic document of major importance similar to speech, music, folklore serving as a means of communication between generations.
Until now, numerous decorative forms have arrived, which testify to the understanding of beauty, their significance as "signs" with certain meanings, symbols of ancient beliefs, legends or myths, which have been enriched with multiple variants, losing the original meaning and obtaining new contents.
In the course of the development of the decorative-applied folk art of each people, various interferences occur, caused by the relations with the cohabiting and neighboring ethnic groups. In popular creation we find ornamental motifs of universal, national and local circulation.
The characteristic features form in a certain way the national style, which is the basis of the national culture of a people, in folk ornamentation, in folklore, speech, music, etc. The study of decorative motifs in Moldovan folk art can tell us about the appearance and evolution of many forms at certain historical stages.
Between the genres of artistic creation there is a certain unity, which forms the specifics of artistic thinking and culture. Here we can follow the drawing of dance movements and we will find much in common with costume ornamentation, embroidery, fabrics, wood art, ceramics, etc.
In the field of decorative and applied folk art, some particularities are well distinguished, which allows the statement that folk ornamentation depends on several factors, primarily on the raw material used and the technique of obtaining the decoration, on the function, the thematic content or the meaning of the ornamental motifs. Thus, each type of art, be it woodworking or metalworking, pottery, or embroidery, decorative weaving or choosing carpets, has specific decorative-artistic features.
The systematization of elements, motifs, and ornamental compositions on different Moldovan folk art objects shows that they differ according to their form or style of stylization. Looking at ornaments through the semantic prism of their content, we distinguish geometric or abstracted, concrete or realistic and symbolic ornaments (mythological, religious, emblematic, etc.). Some of the ornamental motifs are common to the ornamentation of many peoples. Among these we mention: the motif that symbolizes the sun, the tree of life, water, the ram's horns, the whirlwind (the sign of the succession of the 4 seasons), etc.
In Moldovan folk art there is a very rich repertoire of motifs - ornamental "signs" with a special meaning, expressed both by the importance given to folk crafts and by their frequency in different genres of art.
In the Moldavian folk ornamentation we find evidence of some ancient concepts. Examples are the motifs: solar signs, the tree of life, the image of a man, a horse, a snake, the sign of the cross, etc.
A multitude of motifs and interesting ornamental compositions offer us Moldovan fabrics and carpets, whose ornamental forms throughout history have undergone great changes, determined by external influences, urban aesthetic tastes, fashion and intense industrial development.
Fabric ornament
In the art of fabrics, as in other genres of art, a modality specific to the Moldovan national style is preserved. The ornamentation of fabrics, especially that of carpets, has its own calligraphy, an unspoken, laconic, but understandable language. Basically, in the decorative fabrics, a geometric or phytomorphic geometrized decoration predominates, depending on the fabric technique. As for the thematic content of the designs on the carpets, we can distinguish several more frequent groups: vegetable or phytomorphic, geometric motifs, the representation of man, birds, etc. From the vegetal decoration, we can see meanders of flowers, buds, leaves, branches, bouquets, vases of flowers, the tree life etc.
Quite frequent is the method of treating geometric ornaments, including vegetal ones, being subject to geometrical simplifications. The rhombus, square, triangle, rosettes, jagged, straight, dotted lines, etc. are more common. alone or combined with other elements. Zoomorphic and aviamorphic ornaments enjoy popularity: the fish, horse, ram's horns, deer, stag, crayfish, dove, peacock, rooster, etc. All these occur independently or combined with other reasons.
Among the anthropomorphic ornaments we highlight: the woman's face - the symbol of fertility, the girls' chorus, the boys' game, the palms. Often, among the motifs mentioned above, we find sketches of various objects, work tools (combs, chairs, dowry chest, ladder, fork, glasses), monograms with initials, the year of manufacture, images related to certain attributes and wedding rituals (the groom's , the bride's roll, the skirt, etc.).
A rich ornamental range of geometric and abstract motifs of different proportions is available in decorative wool and cotton fabrics intended for decorating homes. These are the walls with elms, checkered, "raised" with different motifs, geometric figures, woven in two colors, laiceras in elms, in picks and elms, towels, the ornamentation of which depends on the weaving techniques.
Wooden ornaments
Mostly the motifs on the carpets and fabrics are repeated on the inlaid wooden objects (vases with flowers, the image of the rooster, the snake, the horse's head, the ram's horns, geometric motifs - rhombus, square, the sign of the sun, water, jagged lines, etc. a.) which are translated into the art of wood.
Of great artistic value are the tools and installations of the popular work technique cut and carved in wood, the pillars and beams of the houses, pillars and gates, wooden household vessels, early wooden forms for cheeses, chairs, ottomans and dowry boxes, blinds and tables etc. Folk craftsmen have successfully combined the logical sense of measure with form, with composition and indented and carved ornamental motifs.
Decorative motifs on ceramics
A great diversity of shapes and decorative motifs presents the popular ceramics: pots and dishes for storing, preparing dishes, serving the table, molds for baking cozonacs, etc. Considering the fact that there are two types of Moldovan pottery - red and black, we also distinguish its categories according to the way of ornamentation: drawing on angobe, motifs obtained by scratching, ornamentation by relief with twisted clay cords, by applying figurines on different vessels . The chromaticity of the dishes is based on a limited number of colors, which shine after glazing. A true cultural heritage presents the decor of Moldovan ceramics, their ornaments and color.
It cannot be overlooked that a large number of objects of decorative folk art, necessary in the past, have disappeared today. Today, other products have penetrated the rural communities - serial industrial ones, new objects, materials, techniques, taking their place in life according to the requirements of the time and in the environment with the new trends of technological development and fashion. It is certain that folk art, being a continuous process, goes through stages of transformation, preserving its own language through the diversity of forms and cultural expressions, which can be used at any time.
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The Moldovan people have created over the centuries a rich and varied spiritual and material culture, which reflected the thoughts and aspirations of the people, their needs and mentality. Oral folk creation, traditions, customs, crafts, literature, plastic art, music, theater, and from the 20th century and the cinema have registered remarkable successes in their evolution, as evidenced by the valuable artistic works that have entered the heritage of the national culture and universal.
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There are a handful of people in Romania making serious money from blogging.
There are a few of us left to catch an olive, the rest dream of paying at least a small hosting plan from that money, to feel that the site in question has also produced something. Very nice thought, it's good to want something more from your little online project.
I follow daily approx. 100 blogs. I put them in bookmarks , as a retrograde what they are (since I don't use RSS or, avoid the one from above, the email notifications ) on 2 big lists (al, mz - I don't think it needs to be explained).
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Porto Katsiki Beach
When we have a 2-3 week holiday this summer, let's set off from Istanbul by car for a few days and then go on to Thasos and Halkidiki, then continue on the road and visit the Greek islands on the Ionian Sea side (Corfu, Paxos, Antipaxos, Lefkada, Kefalonia, We wanted to visit Zakynthos respectively. You can read my article on detailed route planning for the Ionian Islands here.
After a week spent on the islands of Corfu, Paxos and Antipaxos, we return to the mainland of Greece and set out for Lefkada.
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I returned to Lefkada after another 2 years. Fourth time for me, second time for Antonia. I discovered some restaurants, I made some friends with the locals. 2014, 2019, 2021, 2023.
It seems we arrived faster than last time, about 12 hours or so, but we were lucky not to stay at the border at all. With Schengen it would have been even better. I'm not talking about the highway to Giurgiu and, why not, to Sofia.
The island is more expensive and more "luxurious" than on previous visits. I mean, several 4-5 star resorts have been built, there are all kinds of villas that can be rented for a lot of money.
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The principle of conservation of energy does not prevent uninformed inventors from always proposing perpetual motion machines. These people undoubtedly have counterparts in art, finance, education, and in all areas of human endeavor. They waste no time in making the effort to know the facts before becoming supporters of objectionable opinions.
There are people who first jump to conclusions, only to later distort the facts in accordance with their opinions, which have become irresistible. Robert Andrews Millikan
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"Online dating" is estimated to be a $2 billion business, and 1 in 10 people in the United States report having used an online dating site or mobile app, and a quarter say they have found a partner or even got married as a result of online dating.
Studies show that for some, this type of dating works, but for others it doesn't, and the difference between the two categories is given by the expectations that people have when they get involved in looking for a partner online.
Certain dynamics that we see in our online relationships have been explained through the prism of some traditional psychological theories:
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Akdeniz ada ulusunun dini kültürel mirasını keşfedin. Malta, Akdeniz'in kalbinde, etkileyici kiliselere ve katedrallere ev sahipliği yapan küçük bir ada ülkesidir.
Ülkenin dini tarihi, çeşitli mimari tarzlarda önemli dini ibadet yerleri olan çarpıcı binalara yol açmıştır.
Aziz John Eş Katedrali
Saint John's Co-Cathedral, Malta'nın başkenti Valletta'nın merkezinde yer almaktadır.
Aziz John Tarikatı tarafından 16. yüzyılda Maltalı mimar Girolamo Cassar tarafından yaptırılmıştır.
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Miriam Makeba o Afrikalı bir şarkıcı ve söz yazarı ve dünyanın dört bir yanındaki Siyahların haklarının savunucusu.
Güney Afrikalı müzisyen Miriam Makeba, 1932'de Johannesburg yakınlarındaki bir kasabada doğdu ve 1960'larda dünyaca ünlü bir şarkıcı-söz yazarı ve dünya çapında Siyahların haklarının savunucusu olarak tanındı.
1960'lar boyunca Makeba ve müziği, Black Power, apartheid karşıtı, medeni haklar ve Black Consciousness gibi çeşitli siyah siyasi hareketlerle olan ilişkisini güçlendirdi.
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As a Turk, my observations in Canada are my observations about Canadian culture and social life.
Canadians, of course, are not as friendly and hospitable as Turks. You can't find people as warm as Turks anywhere in the world anyway. That's why you can have some solitude in Canada. Canadians value privacy and humility. Canadians are rarely friendly to newcomers. They enjoy talking about sports, politics and their families. There are very few issues on which Canadians choose to remain silent. Making obscene and racial jokes is not welcome.
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Kanadalılar elbette ki Türkler kadar sıcakkanlı ve misafirperver değillerdir. Zaten dünyanın hiç bir yerinde Türkler kadar sıcak insanlara rastlayamazsınız. Bu yüzden de Kanada'da biraz yalnızlık çekebilmeniz mümkün.
Kanadalılar özel hayatın gizliliğine ve alçak gönüllülüğe önem verirler. Kanadalılar yeni gelenlere nadiren arkadaşça davranırlar. Spor, politika ve aileleri hakkında konuşmaktan hoşlanırlar. Kanadalıların sessiz kalmayı tercih ettiği çok az konu vardır.
Dipnot: İnsanların ırklarıyla ilgili ve müstehcen espriler yapmak hoş karşılanmaz.
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Tomorrow ends our eighth holiday in Cavtat , Croatia . We discovered this place 10 years ago and, if we weren't away from Europe in the summer, here we did our traditional beach vacation in 2, then in 3. Nadia is here for the fourth time already, absolutely in love with the Adriatic.
The holiday was, as always, predictably sensational. We know the places like the locals, so we know exactly what to see.
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My parents were married for 55 years. One morning, my mom was going downstairs to make dad breakfast, she had a heart attack and fell. My father picked her up as best he could and almost dragged her into the truck. At full speed, without respecting traffic lights, he drove her to the hospital.
When he arrived, unfortunately, she was no longer with us.
During the funeral, my father did not speak; his gaze was lost. He hardly cried.
That night, his children joined him. In an atmosphere of pain and nostalgia, we remembered beautiful anecdotes and he asked my brother, a theologian, to tell him where Mom would be at that moment. My brother began to talk about life after death, and guesses as to how and where she would be.
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Babam dikkatle dinledi. Aniden onu mezarlığa götürmemizi istedi.
O geldiğinde maalesef artık bizimle değildi.
Cenaze sırasında babam konuşmadı; bakışları kayıptı. Neredeyse ağlamıyordu.
O gece çocukları da ona katıldı. Acı ve nostalji atmosferinde güzel anekdotlar hatırladık ve ilahiyatçı ağabeyime annemin o anda nerede olacağını söylemesini istedi.
Ağabeyim ölümden sonraki yaşam hakkında konuşmaya başladı ve nasıl ve nerede olacağına dair tahminlerde bulundu.
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Bir şeyler yolunda gitmediğinde hepimiz hayal kırıklığı dalgaları hissettik.
Küresel bir salgın nedeniyle bir düğünü iptal etmek veya istediğiniz indirimi kaçırmak olsun, hayal kırıklığıyla nasıl başa çıkılacağını öğrenmek yaşamın altın bir parçasıdır.
Esneklik, bu zorlu anların üstesinden gelmemize ve devam edecek gücü bulmamıza yardımcı olur. Duygusal sağlığımızın karşılanmayan beklentiler nedeniyle aylarca etkilenmesine izin vermek yerine, daha hızlı iyileşebilir ve şu anda minnettar olacak şeyler bulabiliriz.
Hayal kırıklığının ne olduğunu ve hayatın zor zamanlarının üstesinden gelmek için atabileceğiniz adımları öğrenmek için okumaya devam edin.
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Everybody want to dating a single beautiful philino girl but some of them are heart stolen it mean you also look for a soulmate on filipino dating but she also look dating for yours moneys. Just becareful everywhere good and bad peoples. So my next question is
- How easy is it to date a Filipino woman?
By “easy,” do you mean, “How easy is it to get a Filipino woman (a Filipina) to go out with you?” - or -”How easy is it to get her to be interested enough to keep dating you, and vice versa?” Either way…a complicated question, and depends on a few key variables:
- Does this woman live in the Philippines? If so, where - city or province?
- What class is her family? (Socially, educationally and financially)
- What’s her educational background?
How old, successful, handsome, family oriented and generally kind, understanding and gracious are you?
Somewhere around 90% - maybe more - of all Filipinas in the Philippines are considered poor on a world scale. But on a whole, Filipinos are some of the happiest people in the world. So “poor” doesn’t always equate to desperate, or some burning desire to live in a developed country, and especially to marry outside their culture. I should get this out there right up front: If a Filipina has a choice between a middle-aged - maybe divorced - American man with a house and a good job in the US, and a Filipino man closer to her own age with the same financial standing, she’ll choose the Filipino every day of the week. The issue it those Filipino men are very rare, and, they have their pick of the litter.
I’ve lived in Cebu, just a couple hundred meters from the IT Park where thousands of beautiful and educated Filipinas work, and I’ve lived in the province in Mindanao where female college graduates work at Gaisano (the Philippines equivalent of Wal-Mart) for $8 a day. No degree and you’re selling your home-cooked goods to neighbors in the hot sun. And there are thousands and thousands of women in that situation.
Let’s start with Cebu. I’m currently 40, tall, very fit and generally handsome (so my mother says 
When I stroll around IT Park, or the Ayala Mall, or eat at nice restaurants or have coffee at upscale shops, women make no effort at all to communicate with me. It’s not that they’re not interested, they’re just more cultured and don’t act like little school girls. But if you approach them as a generally considerate man with a sense of humor, they’ll happily chat with you, and once they’ve screened to make sure you’re not married or otherwise attached (Filipinas are not into one night stands, unless they are prostitutes, and there are some), YES, they’ll go out with you.
Girls in the province (the country), on the other hand, are simply shy. Funny though…they’ll lock eyes, stare at you, giggle with their friends as you walk by, but rarely ever speak unless spoken to. But if you smile and say something engaging, you’re in a conversation…albeit most likely a much less sophisticated one than with the city girl, and 50 to 60% of what you say will go right over her head. She’ll go out with you, take you to meet her parents (they may show up for the date, or at least a sister or friend), and move in and start planning the wedding within a few days. So again, YES, they’ll go out with you.
But can you continue to date them and they continue to date you? Well, if you’re a generally good guy, halfway funny, not butt-ugly and her family likes you, then she will NEVER break up with you UNLESS you screw around. Then, she’ll not only break up with you, she’ll exact revenge like you’ve never seen. The question comes down to, “Can you continue to date her?”, and that all depends on just how must mental stimulation you need from a relationship. A Filipina will basically do anything with you. she go hiking, play tennis, workout, swim, travel, drink beer, watch sports, hangout and watch movie whatever you want. And if you had any sense at all during the “picking” phase, she’s likely quite pretty and youthful. She’ll have no objection to intimact to the contrar.
she’ll likely surprise you - in a good way. She won’t play games and doesn’t hold sex over your head, but a really big but unless she’s well educated, and well-read, and uncommonly logical sorry, but real, your conversations will be extremely shallow and you may end up feeling like you’re dating a 3rd grader. The Philippines is a culture absolutely fraught with myths, legends, fictions and folklore; a mix of Catholic traditions entwined with old-world paganism, and simplistic (erroneous) answers to nearly every daily challenge abound. Unless your girl had educated parents (most college girls are the first such in their families), then she had a myriad of strange ideas and beliefs modeled for her from childhood, and she’s likely bought in. It may seem cute at first, and maybe you’re willing to overlook it in exchange for her friendliness, general helpfulness, beauty and romanticis but maybe not. When you have a serious argument about whether her father should go to the hospital when he’s having chest pains, and she and her mom say it’s just “air in his chest” and they should rub him down with ointment…you may hit the panic button. But that’s a personal choice, and only you can weigh the pros and cons. So will a Filipina date you? Sure, unless you’re an ass, unhygienic, or a cheater. And will you enjoy dating her? Well, if you’re the active type, she’ll be you’re best buddy. She’s jump on the back of your motorcycle or tent camp across America. But in 95% of the cases, she won’t be in a book club with you.
Why do Filipinas often make such great partners? Because a predominance of men value beauty, sex, a play mate, friendship, helpfulness and agreeableness above intellectually stimulating conversation. Those are just the facts ma’am; just the facts.
There are parents who have no idea about the child's needs, his wishes, what he feels and how he feels. Parents who don't bother to listen to them, who don't know their child at all. but who nonchalantly state that they are the best parents, that only they should listen, follow their rules and do only what they want, because if they don't, they are threatened that they will be thrown out of the house, disowned or that they won't receive pocket money anymore or I know what other nonsense..
Excuse me, but it's your child.. if you don't love and protect him too, who else will?! And how can you do that to your own child..? But look, some people can really do it. and even so easily!
And there are good children who have such parents. there is always a balance. You rarely see or hear, balanced families..parents with good children or vice versa. Someone has to be worse, because otherwise it is not possible. But who says that your child is not good too? Why are you labeling him right after he got a bad grade or how you caught him in a lie? Have you thought that maybe he's lying to you or hiding his feelings precisely because you don't listen to him, don't try to understand him?
I have always proposed that I will be an excellent mother..and that is because I have seen enough bad, negative, bad examples of my own children around me. And I can't conceive of such a thing..I can't understand bad behavior in general, and then on your child, regardless of the situation, regardless of what deeds he has done..It's normal that it's easy to say that, that I'll be the most good mother or the best man. life who knows how it will go, and what I will be given to live, but I am a very understanding person. Every day, I find out all sorts of events, some of which shock me, others I learn from.. and I always try to be understanding with the given situation, with the perspective of the person who tells me those things, with the reasons that led to a certain consequence ..and I draw my conclusions from there that I apply in my life as well..
I thought about what I would say to my child, what advice I would give him... and I wrote them a letter that I wouldn't mind posting here. I also have a little advice for you, those who are or will become parents. Always listen to your children, make time for them, let them make their own mistakes to learn something from it and to mature . Give them wings and let them fly, but in such a way that you don't close the nest door, it's always open for them when they want to (re)return..Don't be selfish to force them to just what you want, let them have opinions, even if that means they can still be wrong! And don't live your life or dreams through them, your time has passed, now is their time.
Letter to my son!
Even if you don't exist yet..or maybe I'll never have you, I feel the need to write a letter for you!
My dear son, God already knows how much I want you. I want to have the first born, a handsome and strong boy with blue eyes. The little boy that the whole family is waiting for, for you to carry our name forward, like you, to make your grandparents proud, and me the happiest and most fulfilled woman on the planet!
And because a mother, not just his father, can teach her son certain secrets of life, I want to write them here.
First of all, I want to raise and educate you in the way I would like the man next to me to be. That is to respect and treat his girlfriend/wife like a princess. You have to learn from a young age that a woman is much more sensitive than a man, and you just have to love and protect her. Don't try to understand it son..you won't! Just love it!
The woman your heart will choose must receive love, support, respect. If you don't love her, don't stay with her, son.
You will have to be the pillar of the house, but you also have to give her the independence and freedom she needs, so she will leave when you least expect it. Give her a flower every day or whenever you feel like it, not just when it's a special occasion. Every day must be special both for her and for you! Give her lots of hugs, even when she tells you to "go away", listen to her, feel her, love her! Cherish each day and don't compare it to any previous one. Women do not compare, they are different of course, but they do not compare with each other. Don't categorize them all the same, just like men aren't all the same, my dear. Probably, throughout your life, you will meet the wrong people/women, but this must be a lesson for you, to gain experience, to learn, and through this you will be able to differentiate between them and know how to choose. But only you need to know this difference, it will only be in your mind!
In short, that's all I want to be: a knight!
Letter to my daughter!
Even if you don't exist yet or maybe I'll never have you, I feel the need to write a letter for you!
My dear girl..
Know that I love children very much and I value them very much and I haven't forgotten what it's like to be a child or even a mother's daughter. So today, I'm writing you a few lines!
I want you to know that it's okay not to always know everything, that it's okay to ask me anything, anytime, and that I'll always understand you. When you want to go home, don't forget that I love you, I will love you and I will always support you! Know that I will understand you if you don't agree with me in certain situations, you don't always have to listen to me, but I want you to know that it's ok to make your own mistakes..you will learn from them. And when you feel the need to ask me, I'll be here. You will always be my little girl, for which I will be happy every day and I will thank God for giving me you!
I want you to know that I understand you and I will understand you in many ways...Because I was once "mama's girl" too! And I also know that you, maybe you will think that I am not right or that I do not know what I am saying, or that you will know better than me! Then I will understand you, but I want you to promise me that no matter what you decide to do, you will always remain dignified, strong and independent.
I don't want and I won't ask you to have only one certain man. You can have as many as you want, but not all of them at once. And consider when you want to have a serious relationship, that a man who cheated on another woman with you, so he will do to you. Or vice versa, my dear..if you cheat, the wheel will turn and so will you. I can't stop you from being someone's mistress, that's up to you, but I tend to think you'll do it in a way that doesn't hurt anyone.
And remember that your happiness is not built on the unhappiness of others. First of all to respect yourself, value yourself and love yourself like no one else could. Love is not always perfect, you can fall in love with a man already taken. but then you have to balance everything. Who will you hurt, and how, if you hurt yourself too, or if your love will be complete! I'm not even asking you to remain a "big girl" until the wedding...I want you to experiment and do what you feel, when you feel, but be prepared and respect yourself..That's the most important thing for you, as a woman!
I'm not even asking you to tell me all your secrets, but I'm asking you to be a smart woman, act on how you feel, and if you don't know a certain thing, come and ask me. There's no shame in not do you know or ask! It's a shame not to know how to be human!
There is no need to spend a lot of money on a bike. In fact, with a little research, you can find great deals on high-quality bikes. Here are some tips to help you find the best cheap bike sites online .
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