How do you manage heartbreak?

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   Honoré de Balzac on Sep 26, 14:49

   You may try what Anatole France stated in his novel "The Red Lily (French: Le Lys rouge)" published in 1894:
   "There is nothing good except to ignore and forget." 
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     Cornelius Ofoegbu on Oct 20, 9:45

     How I wish I can get the book 
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   Onur Türk 🇹🇷 🇦🇿 on Sep 26, 15:21

   Helloı. I want to share my heartbroken experience. I fell in love when I was 21–22 years old to a Romanian girl. I know very well what that feeling is like.  (u) On top of that, I was in a foreign country, struggling with money and housing problems, and I didn’t even speak Romanian language. In such a difficult time, I was alone in the city with no one to support me, not even I dint have another Turk to talk with my problems.

   
   

   I was suffering a lot because of her and I even thought about ending my life.  :( But I didn’t do it because I thought of how much it would hurt my mother, and I also believed that maybe one day, if I got married, I would be happier. Life always gives you another chance, even if you’re 60 years old.

   
   

   I used to go to the park where we had met and think about her. I stayed away from people and sat in the dark because I loved darkness. Then one day, while thinking about her in the dark at Park, I realized I was taking pleasure in it and that my psychology was not okay. Back then, I thought I was the first person in the world to suffer from love.

   
   

   
   

   
   

   Then I went to Internet coffe and started researching how to deal with this problem. That’s when I saw that there were so many people on the internet going through the same heartbreak. Reading about other people’s troubles comforted me at least I wasn’t the only one.

   
   

   
   

   Day by day, I began to pull myself together. It took me 7 months to start forgetting her. Later, I found another girlfriend, and we even shared intimacy, which sped up the process of moving on. One and a half years later, I met her again and realized I no longer loved her my feelings weren’t the same anymore.

   
   

   I think the most important thing is to love yourself. Happiness is in the human mind. Life is full of surprises, and no one can stop a determined person. (h)

   
   

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   Cornelius Ofoegbu on Oct 20, 9:43

   Good,but then you never understand that suicide has never offered a single solution to human problems.

   
   

   I went through it as well by a woman who approached me but later, when I had fixed all my mind on her, I discovered that she already had marriage agreement with another man.

   
   

   It was painful. I was my first experience for me here in Eastern Nigeria. But what encourage me is that when I approached her in her house for explanation, she pleaded with me to forgive her.

   
   

   But she said one to me which I can't forget, even as I was living her house. And she said, " You don't know what God had done for me for not marrying me."